Last night, Amber Coffman from Dirty Projectors (also the vocalist on Major Lazer‘s Get Free) had had enough. She took to Twitter to vent her frustration after retelling a story about how a certain publicist rubbed her ass in front of four men, and bit her hair; in other words, he sexually assaulted her.
In a series of tweets, she went onto say how not only is she mad at him for doing such a depraved act, but also mad at herself for “not punching him in the nose,” before calling out the publicist as Heathcliff Berru, founder of Life Or Death PR & Management. Life Or Death’s roster include acts like Odd Future, DIIV and D’Angelo, so it’s obvious Berru is quite a powerful figure in the music industry. It also makes it all the more shocking to see how many more women came out and shared their awful stories of Berru and his penchant for sexually assaulting women.
Was just re-telling/re-remembering a story abt how a very popular music publicist RUBBED my ass and BIT my hair at a bar a couple years ago
— Amber Coffman (@Amber_Coffman) January 19, 2016
This was someone I barely knew and had just met. He did it in front of 4 of my male friends. Still makes me so damn mad thinking about it
— Amber Coffman (@Amber_Coffman) January 19, 2016
Still mad at myself as well for not punching him in the nose, but I totally froze up. Weird survival instinct I guess
— Amber Coffman (@Amber_Coffman) January 19, 2016
And in case anyone was wondering who the ass rubbing, hair biting mother fucker was, I'm not afraid to say it-
— Amber Coffman (@Amber_Coffman) January 19, 2016
It was Heathcliff Berru, at Life or Death PR and MGMT
— Amber Coffman (@Amber_Coffman) January 19, 2016
I've been told many women have had scary stories about him for years but are scared to speak up. And dudes overlook it and keep hiring him
— Amber Coffman (@Amber_Coffman) January 19, 2016
https://twitter.com/Amber_Coffman/status/689292700076486656?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw
Young Turks, Flying Lotus, Arca, Best Coast‘s Bethany Cosentino and many more have already thanked Coffman for sharing this and calling him out, with many now boycotting Berru and his firm as well as giving support to Berru’s other victims.
.@Amber_Coffman he repeatedly put his hand down my shirt while driving me home after I told him to stop many times
— Beth Martinez. Hero. (@dangervillage) January 19, 2016
Thank you @Amber_Coffman in 2009 he grabbed my ass and then held me down onto my couch as he unzipped his pants &forced my hand on his dick.
— TEARIST (@_TEARIST_) January 19, 2016
.@Amber_Coffman I told our "manager" at the time who said "we are going to have to get over that arent we" if I cared about my band.
— TEARIST (@_TEARIST_) January 19, 2016
The decision to come forward about this incident is not one that Coffman would have made lightly. It happened a few years ago, and as she said above, she had been told that other women shared in this awful experience. The fact that it’s common knowledge enough for countless women to have experienced Berru’s unwanted advances/harassment/assault yet it’s swept under the rug immediately diminishes the feelings of his victims. How do they feel, having had this man do whatever he wants to them, then having it “forgotten” about or ignored? How do they feel when people keep hiring him, even though they know his history? What does that do to his victims’ voices? It silences them, and allows this behaviour to continue.
The women who shared their accounts last night on Twitter are very brave, and should be applauded for doing so. Sexual assault and harassment in any form is never okay, and the higher up it goes, the more important it is to call it out. Stop hiring sexual predators and listen to what your peers and colleagues are saying. Stand by them, because coming forward is not an easy thing to do, and believe them.
Let’s hope Berru sees some swift justice for his actions.
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